Sunday, October 10, 2010

Women think Men are stupid... They would be wrong.

Here's the deal...
Man has free time, woman says she's pay man a visit. Man waits for woman. Woman doesn't show up. Woman does this on several occasions. Man gets pissed off. Woman now tried to make man the bad guy and asks if he still wants to see (presumably meaning to continue seeing her).

From this senario, it can be read that the man is pissed. But being pissed doesn't mean "get the hell out of my life". It means he's pissed and possibly dissapointed. It will pass. 

But what some people will fail to read is the passive-aggresive flip the woman does, instead of owning up to what she's done she attempts to place the burrden of the "relationship" on his shoulders instead of just appologizing and letting the man be pissed for a while. 

Every man on the planet has had this happen to him and at some point the man has fallen for this trap. Probably because there were face-to-face harsh words, or the man was blind-sided with the question while in the midst of being very pissed. Is there a correct answer... yes, at least in my case there was, which was to cut off the question with a more relevant question: Aren't I allowed to be pissed off?!?

Some might say that I should just answer the question. I could but that could lead to the reversal of fault. Instead of the woman being at fault the man would then be the asshole for throwing away their relationship over something like here not doing what she said she'd do. 

Anyway. It's fucked up that women think that they can always have it their way, be emotional and judgemental without having to own up to their faults or mistakes. Or that they think that when they get busted that they should get to flip the situation and make the man the bad guy. This is bullshit. When a man does wrong he's in the doghouse, when a woman does wrong she makes it the mans fault, again bullshit. 

The only way to get through is to keep on topic, don't get sidetracked by bullshit tactics, make her own up to what she did. Then move on.